The more feedback I get from you guys the more I’m thinking in town is the way to go. He also won’t have a vehicle and it’s too far to walk in the frigid temperatures. IF he comes or IF we’re agreeable to it that will also limit the amount we see him.
As far as my daughter- it was her idea to begin with. Her suggestion anyway. I of course felt a great deal of empathy before this knowing his mother would pass away and she did.