What you refer to as empathy I refer to as self control. In all seriousness, regardless of how I feel about his decision to go I still love him deeply and didn’t want to ruin his trip. I have no control over his choices. I only have control over how I react to them. Acting on anger and disappointment would have only made a bad situation worse.

Newspaper reporter in Eastern Iowa. The views expressed are mine alone.

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